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How Men Talk To Women When Online Dating [Infographic]

Online dating can be tough if you don’t know how to set yourself apart from the crowd. For every attractive woman online there are likely dozens of men who are messaging her every day hoping to catch her eye. In order to stand out you need to know what everyone else out there is doing so that you can be unique in your communications.

Our team spent several months collecting thousands of initial messages sent by men to women while dating online. We then spent many hours examining each and every message to pull out the relevant trends to put together the infographic below.
Do yourself a big favor and spend a little time review the data below. Think to yourself if what you have been saying to women online would be interesting and unique or would put you in the bucket of “just another guy” with the same messages.

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